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How To Find A Good Man Or Woman – The Secret

Posted by Mr. Nice Guy on July 24, 2009

I’m going to go ahead and give you the secret to finding a good man/woman since women seem to think there are no good guys left. I’ve said it a few times before, its not that there aren’t any, you just don’t know where to find them.

1. If you want a good man/woman you need to throw that stupid idea of having a type out the window.  Your “type” should be a good man/woman if you really want one. Looks have 0% to do with how someone is going to treat you. In my personal experience, some of the dumbest women I’ve met, have also been some of the prettiest.

2. People tend to attract the kind of person they are on the inside.  If you are shallow, stupid, and ghetto, those are probably the kind of people you hang around, and probably the kind of guys/girls you date.

If you like to lie, your friends probably lie, and your man/woman probably lies to you. On the other hand, if you’re intelligent, you usually want to hang around intelligent people.  If you are loving, you probably hang around loving people.  If you are genuinely a well meaning person, you’ll attract those types of people.

Remember this (and don’t steal my shite LOL), bitches usually attract dogs. Think about it.

3. The secret (for those that didn’t catch it yet) is to change who you are on the inside to attract who you want on the outside… If you don’t believe me, read the book “The Millionaire Mind” and see how your thinking is different from the millionaires in that book. They figured out how to affect their outside world by changing their mindstate.

4. This is the most important advice.  Define what a good man/woman is to YOU.  Stop listening to your dumb ass, ignorant, lonely, bitter, friends about what kind of guy you should date. If they knew, they wouldn’t be all of the above.  Don’t let your friends drop their 2 cents in your business.  They can’t hate if they don’t know shit, so keep your mouth shut about your relationship issues and when they do say some shit, tell them to mind their business.

With that said, the only exception would be if you’re getting beat everyday, then you should listen to your friends and leave.  Unless you like getting beat up (some people do), then by all means, stay and enjoy what you have.  If you can find someone to beat you up and you truly enjoy it, that’s probably your soul mate.  That goes for anything.  Find someone that likes to do what you like to do, unless you’re a drug addict.

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One Response to “How To Find A Good Man Or Woman – The Secret”

  1. browngirlnextdoor said

    “People tend to attract the kind of person they are on the inside. If you are shallow, stupid, and ghetto, those are probably the kind of people you hang around, and probably the kind of guys/girls you date.” <— I love that! I believe it also.
    You do have to follow your own mind and heart. Misery loves and cherishes company. And I had to learn to stop reporting to the crew every time a guy made me mad. It would be temporary and I would forgive and forget, but they would hold onto it and bring it up when I wanted to share positive stories…
    Good stuff! Thanks

    http://www.browngirlnextdoor.com

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