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The Rules Of Bitches and Dogs (Part 3)

Posted by Mr. Nice Guy on July 24, 2009

Yep, had to post another follow up for the young bitches lol. Surprisingly, there were a few young women that agreed with what I had to say in Part 1 and Part 2.

The few that disagreed, were really in agreement with me, but didn’t realize it.  If you were one of the women arguing that men don’t stick around without sex, thank you from proving my point about staying a virgin until marriage.

If you are NOT with the first guy you had sex with and you are now on your 5+ guy and you have never been married, thank you for pointing out that sex before marriage is OBVIOUSLY not the way to get a guy to stick around. If it worked, EVERY woman would be with the first guy she had sex with. A GOOD MAN will stick around without sex.

I got quite a few messages from older women about Part 1 and Part 2. Amazingly, they agreed with what I said. They told me I was right about what I was saying and that younger girls should understand that there is more to a relationship than sex.  They also said I was a little harsh, which I was, but so be it.

Its like that dumb ass statement “its the 90s” when it was the 90s. It doesn’t really mean anything at all, it just sounds good. The 90s were more fucked up than any generation before it, and so it will be with every generation until the end of the age.

I’m just curious about what young women are teaching their kids by their actions. Our grandparents valued marriage and it was taboo to see a married couple sleeping in the same bed on t.v. Watch some old black and white shows like Hazel, Dennis the Menace, Lassie, and some others and you’ll see what I mean.

In this generation, we see randome people fuckin everywhere on t.v. People get married and divorced at a ridiculous rate. Nobody wants to actually work at making a marriage work. As soon as anything gets tough, they jump ship and start over, and so on in an endless cycle. Marriage has become a meaningless joke. It sounds like a good idea, but what’s the point if you know you’re the type of person that is just going to call it quits when times get rough?

For those of you who stand before God, and say your marriage vows, I wouldn’t take that lightly at all. I recall the words, “till death do us part” somewhere in there. That’s part of the marriage oath between a man, a woman, and God. So it seems that people either don’t give a fuck about their promises or they don’t give a fuck about God.

Short of getting beatin and your husband sleeping around, what’s the point of divorce? I’m sure that some guys want divorces, but from my personal experiences, it seems to be mostly the women, who don’t seem to respect their promises before God. If your man isn’t beating you or sleeping around, you should keep your promise you made before God.

“If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.” Numbers 30:2

“And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul; And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.”  Numbers 30:6-7

“These are the statutes, which the LORD commanded Moses, between a man and his wife, between the father and his daughter, being yet in her youth in her father’s house.” Numbers 30:16

“When thou shalt vow a vow unto the LORD thy God, thou shalt not slack to pay it: for the LORD thy God will surely require it of thee; and it would be sin in thee.” Deut. 23:21

“When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowe” Ecc. 5:4

For those women that claim they believe in the Bible, it is pretty clear about making promises to God. I’m not one of those guys that speaks on the church fable of “shacking up” because that just isn’t in the Bible. If someone tells you it is, tell them to give you the book, chapter, and verse. With that said, its still a good idea to be married first. Sex before marriage causes a list of POTENTIAL problems:

1. STDs
2. Single Parents
3. Heartbreak
4. Men and women that have nothing special (virginity) to offer their spouse.

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