Question Of The Week – 07/25/09
Posted by Mr. Nice Guy on July 26, 2009
This question comes from one of my subscribers on MySpace.
How do you tell a man he’s bad in bed without hurting his feelings?
Personally, I think more women she be vocal about what they like and don’t like. Men aren’t mind readers, so just say what you want, during the act, and us smart guys will catch on and learn your body very quickly.
Men, would you want a woman to tell you that you were bad in bed?
Mr. Nice Guy's Corner 
LeLe said
I say just tell it like it is…feelings WILL get hurt. The reason they get hurt is because a man believes he’s good in bed…not so much because women tell him he is. For example, men claim to listen to a woman’s body…but nine times out of ten, they misunderstand what her body is saying becuase they feel good and assume she must also. If a man was really paying attention to a womans body, he would know when things work and when they don’t. Instead, they just typically run through their “program”. Not everything works for every women.
tiffanienyc said
Tell it like it is, because if you do then maybe your sex life can be worked on, but if you never say anything you will be miserable for as long as you are with that person. And this will definitely cause tension in your relationship. I know they say sex isn’t everything, but it’s a REAL major component. 🙂 Speak up!!
familydrama said
As a woman, I strongly believe that women have to take charge when they are not being satisfied. Problems in the bedroom WILL spill over into other aspects of the relationship, assuming there is one. In any case, have your way with him. Guide his mouth, hands, penis exactly where you want them. If he’s too fast, tell him to slow down and let you set the tempo. You have to speak up. Many men will do what you want them to do, because they want to please you. If your pleasure is not a priority for him…well, that should tell you something. Women, if you’re unsatisfied, it’s your fault!!